True friends should stick together through thick and thin...to help each other out no matter what the problem is...This is at least whatpeople always say...But ask yourself...have you ever done your part as a friend?
Have you ever been there for that person when he or she is in trouble?
Friends that I have...well...they're weird...or at least weird as a bunch...simply ranges from one who shares the same ideal as me of the whole point of being a friend, some are just friends who prefer to keep private things private, some are always cheerful but being cheerful is most of the time just the calm before the storm before a mood swing comes in, and some are just awfully depressing, there's even one who always seems to be preoccupied with some stuff and the only times we're in contact with each other is when that person's in trouble...
Though I can surely say I did my part as a friend...sometimes those efforts simply aren't repaid in kind...which is quite disappointing at times...but I guess it comes with the package doesn't it? Once you have chosen that person as a friend, you must put up with his or her flaws...while he or she has to put up with yours...sometimes when conflicts happens...it will in fact strengthen the friendship if both is willing to forgive and forget...lessons learned from these conflicts will help in a lot of ways...but sometimes some people won't really learn...
When lessons aren't learned, I'm not hurt...I'm just disappointed...at times it would seems like everything you did for that friend has no meaning at all...then again...the times you have spent with that friend is something that you hold dear...and in the end you will just keep trying...no matter how disappointed you are...
I hope this will be a wake up call for some friends of mine if they ever read this...
That's all folks
Have you ever been there for that person when he or she is in trouble?
Friends that I have...well...they're weird...or at least weird as a bunch...simply ranges from one who shares the same ideal as me of the whole point of being a friend, some are just friends who prefer to keep private things private, some are always cheerful but being cheerful is most of the time just the calm before the storm before a mood swing comes in, and some are just awfully depressing, there's even one who always seems to be preoccupied with some stuff and the only times we're in contact with each other is when that person's in trouble...
Though I can surely say I did my part as a friend...sometimes those efforts simply aren't repaid in kind...which is quite disappointing at times...but I guess it comes with the package doesn't it? Once you have chosen that person as a friend, you must put up with his or her flaws...while he or she has to put up with yours...sometimes when conflicts happens...it will in fact strengthen the friendship if both is willing to forgive and forget...lessons learned from these conflicts will help in a lot of ways...but sometimes some people won't really learn...
When lessons aren't learned, I'm not hurt...I'm just disappointed...at times it would seems like everything you did for that friend has no meaning at all...then again...the times you have spent with that friend is something that you hold dear...and in the end you will just keep trying...no matter how disappointed you are...
I hope this will be a wake up call for some friends of mine if they ever read this...
That's all folks
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